Why you should get away from a toxic person immediately
It may seem obvious, but you should run for the hills if you are in a toxic relationship. Abuse comes in all shapes and sizes, and it doesn’t necessarily mean the person is a “bad “ person. They may have bad traits, spirits, and energies due to their toxic environment/upbringing.
Your spirit should be more valuable than gold because it is. Your energy is precious and God-given; staying in tune with a toxic person can get you in line to an unnecessarily hard life and after.
Knowing the signs
- If you get that “gut feeling”, that’s another way of saying the Holy Spirit is warning you of something.
- Lifts you up in private, but when others notice, it tries to bring you back down.
- Comparing a lot.
- Trying to one-up you or move the spotlight from you to them.
Competition can be healthy to motivate you to do better, but when someone is always competing with you, things can get interesting.
The only person you should be competing with is yourself, and you should be focused on pleasing God and showing you love Him.
Through loving and obeying Him you will be blessed and have what you desire.
Who Could It Be?
We are in a spiritual war, so you must understand how the opposition moves.
You would primarily be attacked by people closest to you.
Think about it: these are the people who are constantly around you. They know…
- What irks you, and what pisses you off.
- What scenarios you experience, and how it affected you
- Your strengths and your weaknesses.
- Who you are romantically inserted in.
- Who you dislike.
Etc.
So this goes for any human. Moms, sisters, besties, boyfriends, and all. Especially family. It seems like a cycle.
You are introduced to your immediate family, the people you were born into the world to.
You have great relationships and bad ones. Or the great relationships turned bad or vice versa.
Or you have that jealous sister, brother, or friend. Then you graduate high school, and the friends you had aren’t there anymore. Then it’s the toxic boyfriend and toxic boss.
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I’m not saying this to instill fear or say how this is going for you. I’m saying this to warn you because snakes come in all shapes, forms, and sizes.
Who you can always trust
That’s one of the infinite reasons it’s essential to understand that God loves you. Unlike humans, God is the same. He keeps his promises. HE is absolute. Through HIS love and mercy, we have an opportunity even to repent. He sacrificed his SON for us. Do you know how major that is?
God is perfect, and praise HIM. Those who love Him are truly blessed. Those who show their love for Him will be blessed with all their desires, meaning if you are close to Him, His desires become your desires.
Talk to your dad in heaven to reveal the things hidden by the distractions and illusions in this world.
God bless you with discernment to see who’s for you and against you.
